{"id":1110,"date":"2020-03-15T09:50:21","date_gmt":"2020-03-15T13:50:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/sabbaghela\/?p=1110"},"modified":"2020-03-22T20:25:35","modified_gmt":"2020-03-23T00:25:35","slug":"its-not-about-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/sabbaghela\/2020\/03\/15\/its-not-about-you\/","title":{"rendered":"It&#8217;s Not About You"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Last night was the first night where I lost sleep about what&#8217;s going on in the world. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Thursday seems like a lifetime ago, when students were asking, half-jokingly, half-seriously, if they would close schools due to the novel virus which is sweeping the country. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At the time, I will admit, I rationalized away their concerns &#8211; partly because I had not accepted the scope of what was happening, and partly because how I was choosing to deal with what was going on was with<a href=\"https:\/\/dw8stlw9qt0iz.cloudfront.net\/8helUHVPvP20LeKbM_SlMzQnfMw=\/2000x2000\/filters:format(jpeg):quality(75)\/curiosity-data.s3.amazonaws.com\/images\/content\/thumbnail\/standard\/0cea5417-e0f8-405c-f3f1-08216346cbe7.png\"> my typical *head in the sand* strategy.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When a fellow teacher told me that Governor Whitmer was going to speak at 11pm, I shrugged my shoulders and went to bed &#8211; we would have school.   <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I was wrong. I woke up to the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.michigan.gov\/whitmer\/0,9309,7-387-90487-521560--,00.html\">announcement<\/a> that schools would, in fact, be closed effectively immediately &#8211; for THREE WHOLE WEEKS.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.michigan.gov\/whitmer\/0,9309,7-387-90487-521560--,00.html\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/nbc25news.com\/resources\/media\/d24133cd-6596-42c7-b465-f80e8ab708d1-large16x9_MGN_1280x720_00312C00HHIWJ.jpg?1584068390252\" alt=\"\" width=\"319\" height=\"180\"\/><\/a><figcaption>In light of CoVid19, all MI schools CLOSE.<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>On Friday, I did my best to keep any school-related questions to a minimum, realizing that the one thing we all had in common was just the massive uncertainty we were all grappling with:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>What would be the <a href=\"https:\/\/drive.google.com\/open?id=15bDMJDS0fvPOJUHJCO-28vrQqhPydQZp\">expectations<\/a> for students and staff alike when it comes to remote learning? <\/li><li>How about standardized testing in April? <\/li><li>What did this mean for our seniors graduating in June? <\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-background has-luminous-vivid-amber-background-color\">(My friend\/colleague, Ms. Kubicek, shared her <a href=\"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/kubicek\/2020\/03\/13\/a-very-strange-day\/\">thoughts<\/a> after the news broke.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-twitter aligncenter wp-block-embed is-type-rich is-provider-twitter\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/fastcrayon\/status\/1238612011430187008\n<\/div><figcaption>Amy Fast tweets about schools as communities.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>I tried, and failed, to keep other questions at bay: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>How are we going to address<a href=\"https:\/\/venmo.com\/smsabb4\"> loss-of-income<\/a> (I have no savings account)?<\/li><li>Will my parents be safe\/stuck in France?<\/li><li>What does this mean for my sisters, both of  whom work in healthcare?<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>A lot of students, at-first, reacted to school closings with the same glee as when a snow day is announced, but, try-as-I-may, i could not find any glee &#8211; only dread. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As always, the internet provided its usual blend of information and distractions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-instagram wp-block-embed is-type-rich is-provider-instagram\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\nhttps:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/B9rp5IvJJY0\/\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Having been in the <a href=\"https:\/\/cash.app\/$ElaTchr\">red<\/a> all week, I did not have the opportunity to &#8220;prepare&#8221; by going to the grocery store earlier this week, so come Friday *PAYDAY* &#8211; it was &#8220;too&#8221; late:  Right or wrong, I would not sacrifice my sanity\/mental health by subjecting myself to the chaos of panic.   (Don&#8217;t worry &#8211; I won&#8217;t starve.)  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And speaking of<a href=\"https:\/\/www.cdc.gov\/coronavirus\/2019-ncov\/prepare\/managing-stress-anxiety.html\"> mental health<\/a> &#8211; I have serious qualms about the next four weeks.  Human beings are social animals.  Isolation is not natural or healthy.  I don&#8217;t know about you, but I clocked a lot of hours on Saturday on my phone, and that is NOT how I want to spend the next four weeks.  My anxiety has already physically manifested itself in stomach and back pains. Don&#8217;t get me started on what being hug-deficient is going to do to me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I tried distracting myself by planning for the remote learning which will start on Monday &#8211; but the absolute anxiety about not being able to reach all my students overwhelmed me.  (Shout-out to the students who helped by re-posting my plea on their IG stories, Snap, and iMessage.)  I will not waste time being angry at myself for not knowing how to do cooler, more engaging stuff online &#8211; but rather focus on the practicalities.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-background has-pale-cyan-blue-background-color\"><strong>The plan for today is to make a schedule for myself, one that includes eating right, going outside, movement, petting my cats, planning for remote learning, and minimizing time on my phone. <\/strong>The Neuropsychology &amp; Education Services for Children &amp; Adolescents recommends creating a <a href=\"https:\/\/pbs.twimg.com\/media\/ETBrAr6XsAY-h-Q?format=jpg&amp;name=large\">schedule<\/a> in order to <a href=\"https:\/\/nesca-newton.com\/making-the-most-of-covid-19-school-closures\/\">make the most of kids&#8217; time<\/a> during these school closures.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you are like me &#8211; it&#8217;s hard to wrap your mind around things unless you understand the <strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.cdc.gov\/coronavirus\/2019-ncov\/specific-groups\/high-risk-complications.html\">WHY<\/a><\/span><\/strong>.  Here it is: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/images.foxtv.com\/static.fox2detroit.com\/www.fox2detroit.com\/content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/932\/524\/wjbk_coronavirus-curve_31220.jpg?ve=1&amp;tl=1\" alt=\"\"\/><figcaption><br>GRAPH from U of M depicting the urgency of taking action to stop the spread.<br><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>You know who I am staying home for?  The <a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/v2EO4Fg3bXU\">Zahraa Alasadi<\/a>s of the world.  And you should too. &nbsp; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/images.dearborn.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/IMG_8611-780x405.jpg\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Thanks for reading. &#8211; Mx. Sabbagh<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Last night was the first night where I lost sleep about what&#8217;s going on in the world. Thursday seems like a lifetime ago, when students&#8230;<\/p>\n<div class=\"more-link-wrapper\"><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/sabbaghela\/2020\/03\/15\/its-not-about-you\/\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">It&#8217;s Not About You<\/span><\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"author":1798,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1110","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blogs","entry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/sabbaghela\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1110","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/sabbaghela\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/sabbaghela\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/sabbaghela\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1798"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/sabbaghela\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1110"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/sabbaghela\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1110\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1162,"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/sabbaghela\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1110\/revisions\/1162"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/sabbaghela\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1110"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/sabbaghela\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1110"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/sabbaghela\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1110"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}