{"id":1102,"date":"2020-02-24T17:57:57","date_gmt":"2020-02-24T22:57:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/sabbaghela\/?p=1102"},"modified":"2020-02-24T17:58:03","modified_gmt":"2020-02-24T22:58:03","slug":"the-struggle-is-real","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/sabbaghela\/2020\/02\/24\/the-struggle-is-real\/","title":{"rendered":"The Struggle is Real"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Today was one of those days that, honestly, passed by smoothly. I had a few ah-ha  moments in all of my classes. Those who care appreciate the humor in <em>To Kill a Mockingbird<\/em> despite the tense mood of Chapter Fifteen.  We all did pretty well, considering that it was our first day  back from mid-winter break. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>With that having been said, I asked my students what they would miss most about MWB, and many of them said &#8220;Sleep.&#8221; and &#8220;Not stressing about school-related things.&#8221; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When I was in college, my sister&#8217;s friend Brian had this theory that human beings thrive on chaos.  If things were hunky-dory and going fine, then what would we have to complain about. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Maybe because the end of card-marking period four is fast approaching (March 6th), not to mention parent teacher conferences, many students have expressed concerns about their grades (my thoughts on grades <a href=\"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/sabbaghela\/2020\/01\/07\/unpopular-opinion\/?preview_id=1051&amp;preview_nonce=771a34d5ed&amp;preview=true\">here<\/a>). <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Today I got to thinking &#8211; what makes one student <strong>care<\/strong> more about their learning\/education compared to another student.  I mean, I don&#8217;t have the answer &#8211; although I wish I did. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I do know that I try; it makes me think of the church I visited yesterday and how the pastor was literally a one-man show trying to keep the congregation captivated &#8211; I felt his pain.  But it can&#8217;t just come from me &#8211; I can&#8217;t be the only one caring. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It&#8217;s back to the old Chinese proverb, &#8220;Teachers can open the door, but you yourself must walk through.&#8221; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Worried about how procrastination is robbing you of learning opportunities?  Make better choices. <\/li><li>Worried about your grade (insert eye roll here). Make better choices.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes I feel like teachers&#8217; expectations rob students of their humanness, but it&#8217;s not that.  Being human, messy and flawed, is commonplace.  The trick? Students should actively be trying to be their best in order to see the growth\/progress their desire. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I can&#8217;t do it for you; and I wouldn&#8217;t want to &#8211; because some of the best lessons we learn are from disappointment and failure. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And to the ones who don&#8217;t care.  Help me help you.  You only have one shot at this small window of your life.  Make better choices and I guarantee you will see better results. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>XOXO &#8211; Mx. Sabbagh<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Today was one of those days that, honestly, passed by smoothly. I had a few ah-ha moments in all of my classes. Those who care&#8230;<\/p>\n<div class=\"more-link-wrapper\"><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/sabbaghela\/2020\/02\/24\/the-struggle-is-real\/\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">The Struggle is Real<\/span><\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"author":1798,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1102","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blogs","entry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/sabbaghela\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1102","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/sabbaghela\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/sabbaghela\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/sabbaghela\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1798"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/sabbaghela\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1102"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/sabbaghela\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1102\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1105,"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/sabbaghela\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1102\/revisions\/1105"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/sabbaghela\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1102"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/sabbaghela\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1102"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/sabbaghela\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1102"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}