{"id":1039,"date":"2019-12-14T18:55:08","date_gmt":"2019-12-14T23:55:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/sabbaghela\/?p=1039"},"modified":"2019-12-14T19:07:08","modified_gmt":"2019-12-15T00:07:08","slug":"be-like-z","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/sabbaghela\/2019\/12\/14\/be-like-z\/","title":{"rendered":"Be Like Zee"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Last week I had a student write a compelling argument against grades.  She ended her bell-work, her longest yet, with &#8220;Thank you for coming to my TED Talk.&#8221;  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Don&#8217;t get me wrong &#8211; I see where she is coming from.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I personally hate grades and the emphasis placed on grades.\u00a0 Just because you have an A, does not necessarily mean you are smart.\u00a0 Some people test well. Some people are &#8220;good&#8221; students. \u00a0The &#8220;bad&#8221; kids are often &#8220;misbehaving&#8221; because they are bored\/unchallenged.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-background has-regular-font-size has-light-green-cyan-background-color\">But &#8230; here is the thing &#8211; it&#8217;s not about grades or even school.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Maybe each opportunity is giving you something to learn &#8211; and I am not talking about math, or science, or history &#8211; I am talking about building character and habits that make you the kind of person you are proud to be and set you up for success.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-background has-luminous-vivid-amber-background-color\">The &#8220;real&#8221; world doesn&#8217;t &#8220;start&#8221; after high school, or even college.\u00a0 It&#8217;s now.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/mail.google.com\/mail\/u\/1?ui=2&amp;ik=fde614135e&amp;attid=0.1&amp;permmsgid=msg-a:r-864597570230108551&amp;view=fimg&amp;sz=s0-l75-ft&amp;attbid=ANGjdJ_xbx0fNUKlE_YibfFpjL6slGfVcGpTv4_3p7nB0Dl2LxDWY18vyzq4WybZgNQVCUJbb7JCsidtVpLzGG3VCb049Ik1XMo87udze-ueCJF19sI0dC5VWmuzChs&amp;disp=emb&amp;realattid=16f06d032e0847488f31\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>The students often offer me the feedback that &#8220;I&#8217;m too nice.&#8221; or that I need to be &#8220;stricter&#8221; because <em>some<\/em> students take advantage of my kindness.  My retort:  I believe in principles such as accountability and integrity.  I believe that it is my responsibility to help students LEARN from the choices they make, good or bad.  Finally, I believe in my students &#8211; but sometimes they break my heart with the CHOICES they <strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">choose<\/span><\/strong> to make.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-background has-very-light-gray-background-color\">I ask you to consider:  When you <strong>choose<\/strong> to play games, instead of taking the opportunity to reflect and grow as a person, as a writer, what is the cost?  When you <strong>choose<\/strong> to lash out at others because you are disappointed in <em>yourself<\/em>, how does that impact those around you? Ask yourself: What kind of habits: mental, physical, and emotional are you practicing?\u00a0 How do those habits help or hurt you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The thing with high school &#8211; there are a lot of things that distract us from what&#8217;s truly important.\u00a0 You already know it&#8217;s not grades or drama.This LIFE thing is not easy &#8211; and definitely a minefield to navigate through&#8230;. but if there&#8217;s anything Zahraa taught\u00a0me, it&#8217;s that BEING a GOOD person, and approaching life with an OPEN heart &#8211; no matter all the drama and struggles and challenges &#8211; THAT&#8217;s what really MATTERS.\u00a0<br>(HUGS)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Last week I had a student write a compelling argument against grades. She ended her bell-work, her longest yet, with &#8220;Thank you for coming to&#8230;<\/p>\n<div class=\"more-link-wrapper\"><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/sabbaghela\/2019\/12\/14\/be-like-z\/\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Be Like Zee<\/span><\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"author":1798,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1039","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blogs","entry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/sabbaghela\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1039","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/sabbaghela\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/sabbaghela\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/sabbaghela\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1798"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/sabbaghela\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1039"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/sabbaghela\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1039\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1042,"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/sabbaghela\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1039\/revisions\/1042"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/sabbaghela\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1039"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/sabbaghela\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1039"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/sabbaghela\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1039"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}