{"id":2764,"date":"2021-04-26T14:32:21","date_gmt":"2021-04-26T18:32:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/journalism\/?p=2764"},"modified":"2021-04-27T14:21:46","modified_gmt":"2021-04-27T18:21:46","slug":"whats-up-by-jasmine-catrib","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/journalism\/2021\/04\/26\/whats-up-by-jasmine-catrib\/","title":{"rendered":"Whats Up by Jasmine Catrib"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>2Pac once said <strong><em>\u201cAnd since we all came from a woman&#8230;Got our name from a woman and our game from a woman..I wonder why we take from our women\u201d, <\/em><\/strong>He\u2019s right why do we? Every day there\u2019s a female that gets hit with the<strong><em> \u201cyou look good today\u201d <\/em><\/strong>from some random, or a<strong><em> \u201csmile, you\u2019ll look more attractive\u201d<\/em><\/strong>&#8230;Somewhere in America, a woman gets more than just harassed every 2 MINUTES. Now that\u2019s just in America, and for what? For saying no? Or is it because your ego is a tad bit too big.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"130\" height=\"242\" src=\"https:\/\/lh5.googleusercontent.com\/6KOaJ0-fTmzdveDkes58q0TnkkCUIsoNSz-8aF0wMmLvdlheelglOPaWJFizvA_hNc9dLkjzBbbHjUYffApYjAwAt76cD-iHOqCLVlf0UhRCDtTCc57tXEytzjDhzKLeojodKwQO\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Emily Cain, a 20-year-old in college, is quick to assure harassment and catcalling is not silly. She describes this as,<em> <\/em><strong><em>\u201cIt feels like I\u2019m being singled out and like I\u2019m being made fun of almost because I have a feature that caught someone\u2019s eye, makes me feel like an object and like I\u2019m not respected enough to just get a compliment instead.\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;If you are going to compliment someone you compliment them without sounding like you&#8217;re saying it for other intentions.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There\u2019s no originality in when being catcalled it\u2019s usually the same things being said. <strong><em>\u201c I wanted a relationship with you because you weren\u2019t with anyone else\u201d<\/em><\/strong> and<strong> <\/strong><strong><em>\u201c You don\u2019t need to be smart you\u2019re pretty.\u201d<\/em><\/strong> After being told this monthly, She said It\u2019s like we are nothing more than looks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;So many females are now even uncomfortable with walking alone even during the day since, <strong><em>\u201cMen that catcall don\u2019t even realize that when they do our hearts skip a beat, and not in a good way, we pray that they will just leave it at that and not follow us and we think \u201cshould I answer? If I don\u2019t answer will he get mad? But if I answer will&nbsp; he take that as an Invite?\u201d<\/em><\/strong> No one should feel like this yet it\u2019s happening.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Females all around the world are purchasing tasers, pepper spray, and self-defense keychains just to not be the next victim<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>.<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"146.28082191780825\" height=\"174.7422231085252\" src=\"https:\/\/lh5.googleusercontent.com\/C3NFaqOcXYKEO3A9f_GHm3EyluzwrKGoosaSN_CpT-16YsmWxWFN7asOXfetWID6tb9xzBsIhPtoMjg0u65p593jBqCzLlXtnDuyZAbupqEpIaaxs9jHSIn_30BUvqZD21Ygga6K\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Timothy Smedley, a middle school social studies teacher, shared his thinking and also thought harassment and catcalling is not silly. He thinks it\u2019s wrong, weird, and uncomfortable to witness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Harassment doesn&#8217;t just occur at schools or sidewalks. It happens at workplaces too. Aliya Chaney works as an HR Manager of a K-12 school district. She explains that many organizations have made policies to make sure all workers are comfortable. These policies are helpful to prevent a respectful and harassment-free community.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>.&nbsp;<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"136\" height=\"181\" src=\"https:\/\/lh4.googleusercontent.com\/OT2-9R4-YhZokmawECWFCED5aMQV9Xdj4A0L74k7trAInzg6cDteqmNBMNOtRXCDcpDnN1kMB2xFhda-iyo443nfNyy1X_ZBWwWjXufZ5SV9XJ0cuefG7fsezjq11m8vJsZj44oF\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Aliya has never been faced with harassment at her job but she did say<em> <\/em><strong><em>\u201c If a guy did say something inappropriate to me, I would immediately advise him that what he said was inappropriate and if necessary, I would file a complaint.\u201d<\/em><\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Others should do this as well. Speak up if you&#8217;re being harassed, and no one should worry about if they speak up would they lose their jobs. Better to be safe than sorry.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Aliya also pointed out that <strong><em>\u201cHarassment in an unlawful act\u201d<\/em><\/strong><strong> <\/strong>and<strong> <\/strong><strong><em>\u201cNo employee, male or female, should be subjected to harassment or intimidating behavior.\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Some people like to make jokes about harassment and catcalling, some might describe them as immature. Some have surrounded themselves with these immature people, others like Reginold Love II don&#8217;t. He clarified that<em> <\/em><strong><em>\u201cIt would be very out of line\u201d<\/em><\/strong>. He is another one to agree that this topic is not stupid. He explains that<strong><em> \u201c Females are already discriminated.\u201d&nbsp;<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"207\" height=\"140\" src=\"https:\/\/lh5.googleusercontent.com\/TdhaMhMq8lmVVBne-wFQmkBRCN02c9HTe3eYHZYKCmXM_la7_wlGaHPt55vsEgvEkJTK9k-7fa_tQ9hQuY5Pu2c28lAkFO-__9ZW9E8JZarOwp6bHIF8VHOvrFCfsS5trgPjWKnS\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>More than a couple of people would need to experience this for it to become a problem, so in what way could it be silly, dumb, or funny. Around 1 in every 6 females are victims of harassment, so it&#8217;s safe to say enough people face this sadly. It safe to say it&#8217;s a problem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Whether you agree or not. No one should feel knots in their stomach wondering if something is going to happen for saying no, or for looking a certain way while working. This issue has been around for such a long time that laws were created like Title VII Civil Rights Act of 1964, Equal Employment, etc just to prevent harassment towards workers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"358\" height=\"199\" src=\"https:\/\/lh3.googleusercontent.com\/4g5hHK3vd26b_YPq-tUqB29_3wOeA2_mX7QxQbGH9j1yK45BB4hgTSSiUwKOmnRMPo4lv48vonn2_optYFyT-trSi92LCTaJ7f73hw6mptqnkJ2mwnxD1B5i7r1XKdHa9ljYf26V\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jasmine Catrib<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>8th grade<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Journalism <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>2Pac once said \u201cAnd since we all came from a woman&#8230;Got our name from a woman and our game from a woman..I wonder why we take from our women\u201d, He\u2019s right why do we? Every day there\u2019s a female that gets hit with the \u201cyou look good today\u201d from some random, or a \u201csmile, you\u2019ll &#8230;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/journalism\/2021\/04\/26\/whats-up-by-jasmine-catrib\/\" class=\"more-link\">More <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":749,"featured_media":2768,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9,16,13],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2764","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-community","category-issues","category-lifestyle"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/journalism\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2764","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/journalism\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/journalism\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/journalism\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/749"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/journalism\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2764"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/journalism\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2764\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2814,"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/journalism\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2764\/revisions\/2814"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/journalism\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2768"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/journalism\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2764"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/journalism\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2764"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/journalism\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2764"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}