{"id":2419,"date":"2019-05-22T12:22:00","date_gmt":"2019-05-22T16:22:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/journalism\/?p=2419"},"modified":"2019-05-22T12:22:00","modified_gmt":"2019-05-22T16:22:00","slug":"the-fatherless-family","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/journalism\/2019\/05\/22\/the-fatherless-family\/","title":{"rendered":"The Fatherless Family"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cHow would this all work out, this family is going to fall apart very soon, who would help with the baby.\u201d she wondered. This is the story of my mom\u2019s solution to her father&#8217;s death. My mom said that it happened at a very wrong time. Especially since it all happened at the age of eleven in a very dangerous area in Iraq. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It started off when she was in a very odd situation with her mom, they fought most of the time so they thought the best solution was to stay away for a while until they figured everything out. So my mom moved in with her grandparents. My grandma was pregnant with my aunt at the time. She stated, \u201cEveryone was stressed for different reasons\u201d. All the light they had in the family was controlled by my grandpa. \u201cHe had to go to work every day to keep a roof under our heads, but he still managed to help the unfortunate,\u201d my mom always says.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/lh5.googleusercontent.com\/nnOG4MXU0peKSyMb1Atx9wTut1t93GeRN4CKTS4PwuB5xyxM25BqKONRx2DggSlVeIHoYY1rLo__Fge6dnHs90OofdvVCbEcvZ02NMqcmouOU_zu4Jcyx8MA5tq5Yxbvq5AqXuZD\" width=\"220\" height=\"292\" \/>At the time, poverty had spread through the whole country, so everyone in that area was struggling to live. My grandpa left his parents house to go to work. My mom said that she had the feeling that something bad was going to happen, so she watched him through the window as he <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">left. She said at that time she felt the one fear she had, the life loss of a loved one.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> He was missing for forty days and the family was drowning in curiosity. As time moved on, two men came at their door with news. They were forensicist Scientists that heard about the missing dad and had a lead but they needed to make sure it was him. Her family saw him and quickly noticed him by his chipped tooth he had. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After the forensics finished their job, they came back with news about what they thought had happened. They said there were two murderers that took his car, shot him in the head after tying him to a chair and threw him in the Euphrates River. They traced him back to the end of the river after being demolished by the fish. My grandma finally gave birth to my aunt and named her the name that my grandpa always loved, <\/span><b><i>Kamar<\/i><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> meaning moon \u201c That was the beginning of the rest of my life\u201d, she said.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Shams Sami<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0\u201cHow would this all work out, this family is going to fall apart very soon, who would help with the baby.\u201d she wondered. This is the story of my mom\u2019s solution to her father&#8217;s death. My mom said that it happened at a very wrong time. Especially since it all happened at the age of &#8230;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/journalism\/2019\/05\/22\/the-fatherless-family\/\" class=\"more-link\">More <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":749,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[16,13],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2419","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-issues","category-lifestyle"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/journalism\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2419","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/journalism\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/journalism\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/journalism\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/749"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/journalism\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2419"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/journalism\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2419\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2420,"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/journalism\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2419\/revisions\/2420"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/journalism\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2419"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/journalism\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2419"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iblog.dearbornschools.org\/journalism\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2419"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}